Whats love got to do with it?

Most people feel that love is the most important thing to make a marriage work.

I think it is unconditional respect for each other that acts like glue to stick two individuals happily in an institution called marriage.

I think it takes stamina to make things work and above all one must have the conviction to make things work.

One must believe in the other...No matter what..Nothing must shake that belief...No amount of failure, no amount of disappointment, each fight should make the relationship stronger...Each day should make the bond unbreakable..

I think I had a faint idea of who I was going to end up with as a 5 year old. As I grew older, that picture became more pronounced more defined.

As a person, I follow my own personal caste system. I like a lot of people, love many people because of their qualities but I could never respect them for some reason or the other. Maybe they never commanded respect or maybe they never deserved it in the first place. Respect is a totally different ball game.

I respect people who have walked on the darker side of life, experienced truth in its most darkest and morbid moments and have come back to light. There is something so attractive about a reformed man, cause he knows exactly what it takes to find the truth.

When I respect a person, I love them unconditionally irrespective of the fact that they could be broke, annoying, temperamental and extremely hard to live with.

When I respect a person, I would listen to every harsh truth they had noticed about me and take immediate action. Strangely it would not hurt me even if they ripped me apart with their words because I know that they can also put me back together.

When I respect a person, I would put him before I put myself effortlessly.

When I respect a person, it would not sting my ego to change myself for him.

When I respect a person, I would believe in what he believes, like what he likes and hate what he hates without even having a question.

When I respect a person, I never doubt their capabilities even if the ship appears to be sinking.

When I respect a person, I never would have to tell them what they ought to do. They already have such a keen sense of responsibility..

When I respect a person, it means that I love them from the bottom of my heart unconditionally..

All said and done, I know what I want...I know that I want it bad enough..I know what I am wishing for..and so I know when I want something that bad, I always get it...

Sounds arrogant I know..but hey you always knew that about me...

In life to be the last one standing, you need to have a strong mind and strong legs. The rest comes very easy...